We litterally complète each other in every way. The kids never want to leave my house. I don't feel as if it is wrong to love 2 people, but it's hurts me to know I hurt them. Cause he has no other friends in the city I live in. . He kept telling me he wanted me to move out but could never make me leave.
But if We go so well together, why life cannot make me be with him? We both have children and have talked about us all living together. But he said he loves me but he is sorry that it doesn't show. Do I just ignore him or be honest with him, that I can't be friends because it still stirs up old feelings? If his fiancee has an issue with it, she may speak to him and it would be his responsibility to let you know or to curtail anything that may be interfering with his relationship with her. She says she is a woman of Jesus on her Facebook. What do you really want for hers? I had an affair with a married man that lasted for 12 years, I am married as well but separated in November he ended it, he just stopped calling, emailing, when I called him, emailed him, trying to get an explanation even closure he ignored me, he did eventually contact me telling me that it was the best to just end it, which deep in my heart I agreed, it was hard loving him and knowing that we will never be together he never made any false promises to me , what hurts me the most is how he ended it. I feel I am very unfair to him because I really do not love him the way he loves me. I love my married man with all my heart.
Says he wishes he could spend more time with me. And instead of being mean, he lifted my heart and said he syllable loved me and his heart would always belong to me. I recently discovered my husbands affair with one of our mutual friends and let me tell you it is the worst thing you can do to a person other than murder them! We dated only a few months before we ended up pregnant. For those that stay with their wife, they can make their marriage better than it was before. I am afraid of seeing him and having to tell him that I am married as it might discourage him. Even when two people have a right to each other, limerence fades.
Sex with a new partner is always exciting, at first. Loving someone means putting their best interest first which neither of you are doing here. No one in our whole previous high school has lived where we have lived. She just might… But, mostly it's that sex thing. I really would not determine a course of action until you have done this.
Him and I both felt it while ummm. I announced that I was going to leave, but I don't think he took it seriously until the day I actually did. I take care of my now quasi ex husband and we have become friends but he is not happy either because I can not give him what he needs. I think we both just latched on to whoever came our way. My primary partner does not know of my other love, it's very difficult but their two different loves a life long love and a romantic love.
When I get space from both my husband and boyfriend, I feel quite certain that I should stay in my marriage and cut things off with the boyfriend. Every time I look at him I feel so sorry for him because I feel like im a hypocrite. We did it for a while 2 years and now Evrrything is repeating i found someone that I really like, he is smart and we click together perfectly however. The intention is to bounce his energy back to him. I Love this man with all my heart, I only the best for him. I wonder how many times your wife turned down the 'other guy', because she put you 1st.
Im not sure if I love my husband or have I ever love him. I understand that some people believe marriage to be final and sacred. We each move through three major phases in life. As for me all I do is think about him. The end of a relationship is a lot like grief, I think, with the difference being that the death of a person forces you to move on, whereas in a relationship breakdown you can delude yourself into thinking that there is still a chance for things to be like they were.
Sometimes, it is just comforting to know that someone out there can at least identify with exactly what you are dealing with and feeling. I think you need to do the same. But right now, we are in this grey area. Should I stop being friends with him out of respect for his now fiancee? My ex and I dated were in a very serious relationship for 3 years until he broke up with me 3 months ago. If you're young 12-20 , concentrate on schooling and God if you're christian. Throughout our marriage, I have on numerous occasions, reached out to my ex, because thoughts of her would come rushing at me so strongly that it would become overwhelming. Wants to sleep beside me.