And that parts of our brains that are developing are the parts that allow us to handle complex emotion and deep level critical thinking. I can't imagine how much she'll change from now until the point she turns 24. One of the biggest problems with that particular age gap, is that lots of mid-twenties people are ready to get serious, both emotionally, and practically. Because knowing that this female does not have much experience and has not even encounter sexual intera … ctions. I just figured that is how it is. I wonder how the law would see it. Our forums are just another great platform that allows our users to come together to communicate and share with each other.
I am completely happy he treats me better then anyone and I think that has a lot to do with his age. A female reader, anonymous, writes 15 December 2005 : I am a 16 year old female in a similar situation. . The age of consent is the age that they're legally allowed to consent to sex. Didn't know if maybe that was the reason you asked to see if other people differed from what maybe a parent said. At 23 playing games in the dating world is standard.
There are some good subs on reddit that deal with sexual strategy: good luck out there! We hang out almost every weekend now, and talk to each other every night, for hours. It doesn't sound like much now when they have been happily married for almost 20 years and have 3 kids. Wait until she's 21 and can go out and do anything. I am in exactly the same situation at the moment- I am only 18 and have met a 26yo guy. So, an 18 year old can definitely excite your life and show you ways to have fun. Some guys are not all that mature by 25. I want fun and trust at the same time.
For me as the 18 year old in the relationship my boyfriend has given me stability and my calming effect when I return home. He is weery about it, and i kno the age thing bothers him, because hes always worried about what people will think, my parents know about us and are happy for me, because they know im very mature for my age i got my first place when i was 15 and have lived on my own as a single mother since, i start college in the fall and am goig to be an accountant. I don't think there's anything inherently immoral about it, it's just the awkwardness of the age difference you have to deal with. If you are on the same wave length then it might be ok. I had all the time in world to find someone special that I would want to spend my life with.
Massachusetts law is kind of weird: The age of consent in Massachusetts is 16. A female reader, anonymous, writes 14 April 2009 : hey there!! As a community of more than 40 million individual opinions and ways of experiencing the world, we are always coming up with new ways for our users to meet, go on dates, and fall in love. A male reader, anonymous, writes 3 August 2009 : I read through all the comments, much good advice, currently I'm in a situation like this that i dont know what to do about it. Nothing in the above answer is meant as legal advice that would create any type of attorney-client relationship. That means 40 would be considered acceptable for you to date. At the extreme negative end, the 23 year old might be having to do some explaining to some nice law enforcement officials, and paying a pretty hefty price for a foolish choice.
Of course, you can make anything work. You should forget about it and move on. Answer the question or mind your business lol. Don't get me wrong we do got our bad times but I've noticed about him he likes to talk it out and doesn't like to leave the house room knowing that we have a problem. Another thing is im still a virgin, and after being with a guy 7years my senior people dont expect that.
When he was 16 he dated a girl only 3 years younger. Ages 18-23 Featured Ads Age 23 Texas Age 22 California Age 23 Texas Age 22 Tennessee Age 23 Kansas Age 23 Oregon Standard Ads Age 21 Virginia Age 20 Texas Age 23 Nevada Age 22 Tennessee Age 18 Florida Age 21 Washington Age 23 Texas Age 23 California Age 23 Nevada Age 21 Iowa Age 22 California Age 22 Florida Age 23 California Age 19 Texas Age 21 Indiana Age 21 Nevada Age 22 Tennessee Age 21 Nevada Age 23 Michigan Age 20 Michigan Age 23 California Age 21 Tennessee Age 23 Texas Age 21 California Age 23 Tennessee Age 22 Oregon Age 20 California Age 23 Virginia Age 18 Louisiana Age 20 California Age 20 Texas Age 22 Texas Age 22 Texas Age 23 California Age 22 Nevada Age 23 California Age 23 Texas Age 23 Tennessee Age 23 Nevada Age 23 Texas. Until then, who hurts who? It depends on the personalities and maturity of the people involved. He never pushed me to do anything i didn't want. She has a lot of knowledge to gain and much to grow still.
A female reader, anonymous, writes 25 March 2009 : I am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend of 8months is 26. Tl;dr- just because she's 18 it doesn't mean she's emotionally undeveloped. All right I am guilty of this. I dont know if or what i should say, i also dont want to ruin a good friendship by making her feel uncomfortable if i do say something and she doesnt feel the same. We all need to play the role of teacher in our lives once in a while.
There are sooo many issues you both can discuss and should do if you want this to work. Remember back when you were 18. My advice is to be supportive of where she is in her life, and let her know what is going on in yours. I see nothing wrong with it. You have to both come up with plans and compromises to work it all out. The chances of negative consequences are greater than positive ones. I've seen it way too often.
I'm in almost the exact same situation, except the reverse my gf is going to be 23 soon, I'm 19. If you both like each other it will all work out the way it is supposed to — with or without playing the game. We do not have an attorney-client relationship by this response on the avvo website. No one deserves someone who is just going to mess with your head all the time. When you want to go to that concert that is 21+, she can't go.